We have introduced the idea ofyour focus being your blessing. This is why your time, your fullypresent attention, is so very important to all of your loved ones.Your focus is considered your blessing, your endorsement, youragreement, your desire to continue. This explains why children willmisbehave to receive your focus, even if it seems to be “negative”attention. They understand that where you place your focus is yourway of saying you are choosing to keep the object of yourattention. Receiving your attention shows you still love them andwish to continue your relationship with them, which soothes theirinsecurity. Regardless of the energy behind it, it is your focusthey are seeking because they know with your focus comes yourblessing. This explains why positive reinforcement is such aneffective tool with your children. It gives your energeticblessing, the reassurance of the continuation of the relationship,before the need for acting out occurs. ~ArchangelGabriel
翻譯:Nick Chan http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_bd4aebd60102v3dp.html
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