想像一下，如果有人請你登上他的電腦幫他弄一些東西但拒絕給你密碼？這會不會是一個令人沮喪的局面？你可能會停留很久來嘗試密碼，而他所要做的只是伴隨著輕盈給予你所需的信息就行。
Imagine if someoneasked you to log onto their computer to help them with somethingbut refused to give you their password? Wouldn't that be afrustrating situation? You could be stuck for ages trying to guesswhat it might be, when all they had to do was give you theinformation you needed to assist with ease.
這跟你沒有清晰地傳達你所需的時候本質上是一樣的。人們可以嘗試無數種不同的組合，但除非你很明確，他們的可能性變得完美是不大可能的。
It is essentially thesame thing when you do notcommunicate clearly what your needs are. People can try a myriad ofdifferent combinations of things, but unless you are clear, thelikelihood of them getting it perfect is very unlikely.
親愛的一們，變得清晰。為自己省去辭不達意，誤解的信號，失望，所有的沮喪以及阻礙他人能夠明白你需要什麼的東西。通過清晰地交流，你給予人們你的密碼！你成為對他人來說安全可預測的人，這會進一步加強你與他人互動的質量。真理、透明度、接納和愛，讓與他人真正的連接成為可能，會創造你所一直渴望的和諧並統一的意識。~大天使加百利
Dear Ones, be clear.Save yourselves the miscommunications, the misread signals, thedisappointment and all the frustration and angst that comes fromexpecting others to be able to know what it is you need. Bycommunicating clearly, you give people your password! You become asafe and predictable person to others, which further enhances thequality of your interactions with others. Truth and transparency,acceptance and love, makes truly connecting with others possible,which is what is going to create the harmony and unityconsciousness you've been yearning for all along. ~ArchangelGabriel
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