So many humans have developed elaborate habits toavoid taking the risk of speaking their truth. They expect peopleto know how they are feeling. They drop hints. They become moody.They expect people to figure it out. This is a faulty system thatis rarely effective. Let us explain why.
你們每個人,要為自己負責。你無法為他人的幸福負責,試圖去這麼做就是把你的專注帶離了你唯一可以控制的事物,就是你自己。期待他人觀看著你的每一步來得到暗示,關於你的感受和你的需求是什麼,就是鼓勵他們通過把他們的專注放在你身上而交付自身的力量。這也是交付了你自己的力量,因為你的滿足和舒適依賴於他人的行為。
You are, each and every one of you, in charge of you.You cannot be responsible for another person's wellness, and to tryto be is to take your focus off the only thing you do have controlover, which is yourself. Expecting others to watch your every moveto get clues as to how you feel and what you might need, isencouraging them to disempower themselves by putting their focus onyou. It is also giving your own power away because yoursatisfaction and comfort is dependant upon another'sbehaviour.
親愛的一們,如果你變得自我負責你的人生會變得更加簡單。述說你的真理。如果你需要幫助,去請求。在你同意做某事之前停一停並問問自己這是你真心希望做的還是不是。讓他人為自身的行為和幸福負責。幫助,如果被請求,如果是適當的,否則,榮耀他人在他們自身的精通和選擇中。
Dear Ones, you will find your lives so much simplerif you become self responsible. Speak your truth. If you need helpask for it. Stop before you agree to do something and ask yourselfwhether it is something you really wish to do or not. Make otherpeople responsible for their own needs and happiness, as well.Help, if asked and if it is appropriate, other than that, honourothers in their own mastery and choices.
你明白了嗎?當你沒有清晰地述說你的真理和你的需求,有著很多誤解的空間,因為人們只能通過自己的濾鏡看待事物。真理,透明度,榮耀和正直是清晰溝通的基石,會為更加順暢的明天鋪平道路。~大天使加百利
Do you see? There is so much room formisinterpretation when you are not speaking your truth and yourneeds clearly, because people can only see things through their ownfilters. Truth, transparency, honour and integrity are thecornerstones of clear communication, which paves the way forsmoother tomorrows . ~Archangel Gabriel
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