As empaths and sensitives, many of you naturally have profound compassion for others, including those who have hurt you. This is a wonderful trait, but your compassion for those who have hurt you should not exceed your compassion for yourself.
You can understand that a person hurt you due to unhealed aspects they may have. This is wise because it allows you to forgive, but you must also know that until they prioritize healing they are likely to do it again.
這並不是說你不能對他們有愛和同情心。離得很遠！這只是意味著您可能希望重新考慮給予他們 VIP 訪問權限，直到他們能夠以您應得的愛和尊重對待您。
This is not to say you can’t have love and compassion for them. Far from it! It simply means you may wish to rethink giving them VIP access until they are able to treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
因果不是懲罰。這是一個自然的結果，可以促進問責制，並最終促進變革和演變。允許某人繼續以這樣一個較小版本的自己出現會使痛苦的循環永久存在，並且不支持任何相關人員的成長和擴張。健康的界限，當從一個明智和有意識的空間中創造出來時，總會找到一個連接點，支持所有人的尊重、安全和賦權，這非常符合你的移情心真正想要的。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
Cause and effect is not punishment. It is a natural outcome and fosters accountability and ultimately facilitates change and evolution. Allowing someone to continue to show up as such a lesser version of themselves perpetuates painful cycles and doesn’t support the growth and expansion of anyone involved. Healthy boundaries, when created from a wise and conscious space, will always find a connection point that supports the respect, safety, and empowerment of all, and that is very in line with what your empathic heart truly desires. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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