你被請求協助前？你是否感到需要自己去做事情以便它們被適當地完成？你是否擔心人們不再需要你，會拒絕你，如果你停止為他們肩負重擔？你是否認為愛就是為他人做事並犧牲你自己？
Do you have a habitof doing things for others that they can easily do for themselves?Do you dive in to “fix” things before you are even asked forassistance? Do you feel you need to do things yourself in order forthem to be done properly? Do you fear people will cease to need youand will reject you if you stop carrying their load for them? Doyou feel that love means doing for others and sacrificingyourself?
親愛的一們，如果你認為如果你不經常地為他人做事情他們就會拉下臉，你在向他們出售短暫的個人授權並阻止了他們得到自己的個人授權。你在妨礙他們的成長和體驗。此外，你在奪取他們的機會去向你展示他們無條件地愛，因為你致力於前提---他們的愛與接納取決於你為他們做的事情。恆常地解救他人是一種控制。這會支持軟弱和受害者意識。
Dear Ones, if youthink that people will fall on their faces if you do notcontinually do things for them, you are selling them short andblocking them from their own personal empowerment. You are stuntingtheir growth and their experiences. Further, you are robbing themof the opportunity to demonstrate their unconditional love for you,because you are working on the premise that their love andacceptance is conditional upon you doing things for them.Perpetually rescuing others is a form of control. It supportsweakness and victim consciousness.
鼓勵，另一方面，連同接納與允許、支持信念、真正的力量、成長和信心。通過讓他人知曉你親切地會出現在他們需要你的時刻，但你完全相信他們可以自己處理事情並閃耀和成長來提升他們。在請求幫助的時候再提供，但要保持穩當，在整個宇宙都在協助每個人的事實中。系統適用於每個靈魂，你們都有資格在你獨特的方式中綻放和成長。~大天使加百利
Encouragement, on the other hand,along with acceptance and allowing, supports faith, authenticpower, growth and confidence. Lift others up by letting them knowabsolutely that you are lovingly there for them should they needyou, but you have complete trust that they can handle things andshine and thrive on their own. Lend your help if asked, but staysecure in the fact that the entire universe is there to assist eachand every person. The system works the same for every soul on theplanet and you are all completely qualified to bloom and grow inyour own unique way. ~Archangel Gabriel
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2013/12/10/daily-message-tuesday-december-10-2013/
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