變化。你們這麼多人的問題是，“你怎麼知道如果有人傷害你，讓某人回到你的生活中是安全的？”
We realize that for many of you trust is an issue. We have spoken of how people are evolving and changing. The question so many of you have is, “How do you know it is safe to let someone back into your life if they have hurt you?”
大多數人，如果他們要對那些傷害他人的行為負責，就會急於解決問題。他們會保證會有所不同。他們投入到盡可能快地回到事物的方式。我們知道，如果你受傷了，你也想在傷害之前回去。這通常會導致在真正的變革有可能發生之前重新回到這種狀況。
Most people, if they are being held accountable for actions that have been hurtful to others, will be anxious to smooth things over. They will promise to be different. They are invested in getting back to the way things were as quickly as possible. We understand that if you have been hurt, you are wanting to go back to before that hurt, as well. This can often lead to going back into a situation before real change has had a chance to occur.
人們會改變和發展，特別是在這種轉型時期。還有一些人無意改變。你怎麼知道這個區別？在一個致力於改變的人身上，你會看到非常具體的事情。
People DO change and evolve, especially during such times of transformation. There are also people who have no intention of changing just yet. How do you know the difference? There are very specific things you will see in a person that is committed to change.
準備改變的人將證明以下內容。會有內省，並意識到他們不再希望繼續他們的方式。他們將停止最小化他們的行為和/或指責他人。
A person who is ready to change will demonstrate the following. There will be introspection and the realization that they no longer wish to continue the way they were. They will stop minimizing their behaviour and/or blaming others.
通過擁有問題並承認他們給你帶來的傷害，他們將自負責任。他們將有一種真正的內心渴望來改變他們的行為以及他們如何表達自己，然後採取行動步驟來實現這種變化。
They will be self responsible by owning both the problem and acknowledging the hurt they have caused you. They will have a true inner desire to change their behaviour and how they express themselves, followed by taking action steps toward that change.
他們在改變道路上可能並不完美，但他們的努力會保持一致。您將觀察到他們的完整性的變化，這表明他們的個人成長，並且他們將變得更加透明。
They may not be perfect in their path toward change, but there will be consistency in their efforts. You will observe a shift in their integrity that indicates their personal growth, and they will become much more transparent as a result.
大多數人都在談論他們想成為變革的前兆。他們的行動會告訴您這種變化是否真的發生了。致力於改變和改善自己的人採取行動，開展工作，並開始談論。
Most people talk about who they want to be as a precursor to change. Their actions show you if that change is actually taking place. People who are committed to change and bettering themselves take action, do the work, and walk their talk.
在充滿活力的時候，你會看到人們向前邁出巨大的飛躍，讓你驚喜不已。通過根據他們今天的身份做出決定，讓人們足以讓他們有成長和發展的空間。愛自己足夠用自己的智慧來看看變化何時真正發生，以及一個人是否可以安全地回到你的內心圈子，或者你是否必須從遠處愛他們。
During such times of energetic intensity you will see people taking giant leaps forward that pleasantly surprise you. Love people enough to give them the room to grow and evolve by making decisions based on who they are today. Love yourself enough to use your wisdom to see when change is truly occurring and if a person is safe to allow back into your inner circle, or whether you must love them from afar.
知道這是你真正掌控的唯一事情，繼續做自己的工作，最終這些努力總會反映給你。並且知道所有這些都有目的，只要它們對於他們和他們自己獨特的生命表達來說是神聖的完美，人們就會成長和進化。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
Continue to do your own work knowing that is the only thing you truly have control over, and ultimately those efforts are always reflected back to you. And know that all of it has purpose, and that people will grow and evolve whenever it is divinely perfect for them and their own unique life expression. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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