明白一些人可能習慣了你在特定的方式中行為，可能強烈地對改變起反應。這並不意味著你應當否認對你來說正確的來安撫另一個人，而是你可以找到一個方式既榮耀自己又能榮耀抵抗改變的人。友善並溫柔。解釋你在跟隨自己的心和內在指引，但依舊深深地愛和關心他們和他們的感受。明白改變對他人可以是非常困難的。
Dear Ones, there is an art to honouring what is best for you in a way that is kind to others. Understand that some people may have become very accustomed to you acting a certain way, and may react strongly to change. This does not mean you should deny what is right for you to appease another, but you can find a way to honour yourself AND be able to honour the people who are resistant to the change. Be kind and gentle. Explain that you are following your heart and inner guidance , but still love and care deeply about them and their feelings. Understand change can be very difficult for others.
經常如果你否認自己很長時間，進入你想要的會看似突然和意外。你可能做了對你來說異常的事情，因為你忽視了自己真正的需求很長時間。所以聆聽和榮耀你的堅持很重要，因為自我否認經常會導致反應式的行為，這可以是傷人的，並不與你更加想要看到的對齊。
Often times if you have denied yourself for a very long time, moving into what you want can seem sudden and unexpected. You may have done things that are very uncharacteristic for you, acting out because you have neglected your true wants and needs for so long . This is why it is so important to listen to and honour your own self consistently because denial of self will often end in reactive behaviour that can be hurtful and not in line with how you would prefer to be.
親愛的一們，交流，慈悲和始終如一是關鍵。你確實可以做出巨大的改變並減少他人的反應，通過小心和富有同情心，同時堅定地將你的需求，真理和幸福包含為公式重要的一部分。這會讓你進入更大的平衡，最終與他人更加真實的交互，因為你會最終成為真實的自己。不要期望他人知道你的感受，但如果你為了他們的不適表達你很後悔以及一個關乎他們重要性的始終如一和關懷的信息以及你需要改變，你可以在導致最少傷害的方式中做到。~大天使加百利
Dear Ones, communication, compassion, and consistency are key. You can indeed make big changes in your life and reduce the reactivity of others by being mindful and compassionate while steadfastly including your needs, your truth, and happiness as an essential part of the equation . This will move you into a far greater balance and ultimately more real interactions with others because you will be finally being your authentic self. Don't expect others to know how you have been feeling all along, but if you express true regret for their discomfort and a true consistent and caring message about the importance of them and your need for change, you can do it in a way that will cause the least amount of hurt possible. ~Archangel Gabriel
原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2016/02/08/daily-message-monday-february-8-2016/
翻譯：Nick Chan http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_bd4aebd60102wbwh.html
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