當你把注意力轉向治療時，很多人都會等待關閉。我們理解你希望結束一個階段或經驗，但堅持從某人那里關閉可能是一個錯誤的做法。我們將解釋原因。
As you turn your focus on healing, many of you become stuck waiting for closure. We understand you wish to wrap up a phase or experience, but holding on for closure to come from someone can be a faulty practice. We will explain why.
你的治療是一個自我引導的過程。等待來自另一個人的關閉將你的治療放在別人的手中。它正在釋放你的力量。
Your healing is a self guided process. Waiting for closure to come from another is placing your healing in the hands of someone else. It is giving your power away.
更糟糕的是，它將你的治療放在已經傷害過你的人的手中，並證明他們無法在你的真相和價值中看到你。所以，現在你的治療依賴於另一個人的治愈和成長，並且無法保證何時或是否該人將達到為你提供所需要的確認所必需的。
Worse, it is placing your healing in the hands of a person who has already hurt you and proven they haven’t been able to see you in your truth and worth. So, now your healing becomes dependant upon another person’s healing and growth and there is no guarantee when or if that person will achieve what is necessary to offer you the acknowledgment you seek.
如果有人傷害到你需要關閉的程度，那麼他們就不太可能擁有智慧或有利位置來為你提供治療所需要的東西。並不是說他們有一些秘密的愛和意識的源泉，他們一直在扣留你，他們更有可能在這個時候沒有讓它在他們的化身中給予。尋找他們的治療就像在你燒了自己後尋找一個熱爐來獲得舒適。
If someone has hurt you to the point where you need closure it is highly unlikely they have the wisdom or vantage point to give you what you need for healing. It is not that they have some secret wellspring of love and awareness that they have been withholding from you, it is more likely that they simply do not have it to give at this time in their incarnation. Looking for healing from them would be much like looking to a hot stove for comfort after you have burned yourself.
所以你會怎麼做？請理解，除了你自己之外什麼都不需要你想要的關閉。一個舊問題或傷口的最美麗的包裝來自你自己的愛和你應得的更好的認可。它承擔著你自己的愛父母，導遊和最好的朋友的角色。
So what do you do? Please understand you need nothing outside of yourself to get the closure you are seeking. The most beautiful wrapping up of an old issue or wound comes through your own self love and the recognition that you deserve much better. It is assuming the role of your own loving parent, guide, and best friend.
在這一切中你正在尋找的治療和禮物就是你意識到你不再符合能夠讓你受傷的能量，並且那些能量無法為你提供更多能量。這是利用你的經驗作為跳板，為你提供更好的榮譽，並慶祝你是誰。
The healing and gift you are looking for in all this is the realization that you are no longer in line with the energies that allowed you to be hurt in the first place and that those energies have nothing more to offer you. That is using your experience as a springboard for something much better that honours you and celebrates who you are.
關閉是你願意放棄你對能夠傷害到你的東西的精力充沛的依戀，然後親切地引導自己進入一個全新的潛力線，你的完全治愈存在並通過你自己的賦權發生。關於所有這一切的美好之處在於你現在可以選擇繼續前進，同時獲得你應得的愛，尊重和支持。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
Closure is the willing withdrawal of your energetic attachment to what hurt you in the first place, and then lovingly guiding yourself onto an entirely new line of potential where your full healing exists and occurs through your own empowerment. And the beautiful thing about all of this is you can choose that right now to move forward with the love, respect, and support you deserved all along. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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