意，並希望改變它。這是人際關係中的共同經歷，我們希望今天能夠討論這個問題。
We were recently asked by someone how they could be more loving toward their husband. They were not happy with how they were treating their partner, and wished to shift it. This is a common experience within relationships and we wished to discuss this today.
如果你不感興趣，你就不能強迫自己更有愛心。你無法從阻力的能量中找到一個流動的空間。您必須添加另一個您不耐的元素。在更加熱愛的情況下，我們建議您將注意力集中在愛情上並將其置於欣賞之上。
You cannot force yourself to be more loving if you do not feel loving. You cannot find a space of flow from the energy of resistance. You must add in another element that you are not resistant to. In the case of being more loving, we suggest you take your focus off love and put it on appreciation.
只需專注於欣賞您的伴侶。尋找他們所做或所說的感激之情。有意識地選擇觀察它們，著眼於它們的美妙特徵。他們擅長什麼？想想他們的存在為您的生活增添的各種方式。
Simply focus on appreciating your partner. Look for the things you are grateful for that they do or say. Consciously choose to observe them, with an eye toward their wonderful traits. What are they good at? Think about all the ways their presence adds to your life.
如果你這樣做，會發生一些神奇的事情。你的愛會突然開始流動，因為你會把自己帶入一個不抵抗他們的空間。你根本無法欣賞某些東西並同時抵制它。你的欣賞會讓你進入一個充滿愛和接納的心靈空間，從那裡你將以你的靈魂一直想做的愛心方式與他們聯繫。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
If you do that, something magical will happen. Your love will suddenly begin to flow because you will have moved yourself into a space of non-resistance to them. You simply cannot appreciate something and resist it at the same time. Your appreciation will shift you into a heart space of love and acceptance, and from there you will connect with them in the loving way your soul has been wanting to do all along. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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