需要重新調整邊界。
As you continue along your healing journey, many old patterns and habits will be up for review and for change. What often accompanies this is a need for the readjustment of boundaries.
健康的界限一直是啟發人類的主題。簡而言之，健康的界限是關於創造一個充滿愛和賦予所有人權力的空間。這意味著可以根據每個人的情況改變或移動。
Healthy boundaries have been a major theme for enlightening human beings. Simply put, healthy boundaries are about creating a space that is loving and empowering for all. What that means may shift or move according to each individual situation.
您可能希望在探索健康界限的創建時使用一個簡單的經驗法則，就是確保您永遠不會投資於另一個人的健康，而不是投資於他們自己，並確保您不會投入更多資金。另一個人的健康比你自己更健康。確保你是否採取措施提供幫助，而你是從心裡做的，而不是從義務或不健康的控制慾望這一點很重要。在這種情況下給予經常會導致怨恨。
A simple rule of thumb you may wish to use as you explore the creation of healthy boundaries is to simply make sure that you are never more invested in another person’s wellness than they are in their own, and to make sure you are not more invested in another person’s wellness more than you are in your own. Making sure if you do step up to give assistance you are doing it from your heart and not from obligation or an unhealthy desire to control is important. To give under such circumstances often leads to resentment.
你是明智的，親愛的，通過簡單地停止和評估你最新的掌握水平，你將能夠找到支持每個人出現在他們最高的自我表達的地方。有時這可能意味著與其他人一起幫助在危機期間幫助穩定他們，有時可能會退回並提供鼓勵，以便他們能夠找到自己的神聖能力。讓你的界限成為所有人的支持，愛和健康的一部分，你不能犯錯誤。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
You are wise, Dear Ones, and by simply stopping and evaluating from your latest level of mastery, you will be able to find the place that supports everyone in showing up in their highest expression of self. Sometimes that might mean stepping in with others to help stabilize them during crisis, other times it might be stepping back and offering encouragement so they can find their own divine capability. Allow your boundaries to be part of the flow of support, love, and wellness for all, and you cannot make a mistake. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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