Many of you have noticed that when you go through a leap of growth things can feel more challenging between you and your loved ones. We would like to offer you a new perspective on why that occurs.
Almost all enlightening human beings have had other lifetime experiences where embracing their spirituality or authenticity has resulted in them being shunned, punished, persecuted, or killed. While you are absolutely safe to explore those areas now, feeling judgment or a lack of acceptance from those around you can trigger the memory of those old wounds and make you fear similar things.
對於你所愛的人來說，你的成長和擴張會引發對分離的恐懼。在深層次上，他們害怕如果你繼續進化，他們會被甩在後面。這可能會導致他們對你的信念產生抵觸情緒並且反應異常。
For your loved ones, your growth and expansion can trigger fears of separation. On a deep level they are afraid that they will be left behind if you continue to evolve. This can cause them to be resistant to your beliefs and to be unusually reactive.
有趣的是，在你們倆身上觸發了同樣的傷口——對分離和被遺棄的恐懼。治愈這個問題的關鍵是雙重的。首先，向對方保證成長和進化是安全的，並且將為所有相關人員服務。讓他們知道你對他們的愛是永恆的。
What is interesting is it is the same wound that is triggered in you both – a fear of separation and abandonment. The key to healing this is twofold. First, reassure the other that growth and evolution is safe and will serve everyone involved. Let them know that the love you have for them is a constant.
其次，找到你們都喜歡的、讓你們在同一個精力充沛的頁面上的活動會很有幫助。一起冥想可能是在一個安全、充滿活力的空間中建立聯繫的絕妙方式。如果你的伴侶沒有精神上的思想，找一個你們可以一起參與的活動，激發他們的存在感和積極的共享體驗。如果您所處的氣候適宜，您可能會去遠足、看表演或去海灘。鹽水是一種極好的能量清潔劑，可以幫助每個人感覺更舒服。
Second, it can be very helpful to find activities you both enjoy that put you on the same energetic page. Meditating together can be a wonderful way to connect in a safe energetic space. If your partner is not spiritually minded, find an activity you can engage in together that inspires presence and a positive shared experience. You might go for a hike, or take in a show, or visit a beach if you are in a climate that supports that. Salt water is an excellent energetic cleanser and can help everyone feel much more comfortable.
關鍵是創造空間，讓你既能完全在場，又能對彼此開放。隨著您的不斷成長和發展，這將為您的關係提供保證和穩定點。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
關鍵是創造空間，讓你既能完全在場，又能對彼此開放。隨著您的不斷成長和發展，這將為您的關係提供保證和穩定點。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
The key is creating space that allows you to both be fully present and open to each other. This will act as both reassurance and a stabilization point for your relationship as you continue to grow and evolve. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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