We were recently asked if you would see less narcissists in the new energies. We would like to address that today.
The experience of a relationship with what you would call a narcissist occurs to get your attention to move into a better balance with yourself. While it is true that it frequently happens with empaths and sensitives, it is not because they are targeted per se, but rather because they are over givers who need to create an extreme experience for themselves in order to get their attention and to want to address that within themselves.
許多移情者仍然帶著一種殉道的服務範式——他們為自己付出和給予、給予和接受的東西很少。他們在他人身上看到了神聖的火花，並選擇專注於這一點，而不是那個人在這種生活表達中的表現。
Many empaths are still carrying a martyred service paradigm – they give and give and give and accept very little for themselves. They see the divine spark in others, and choose to focus on that rather than how that person is showing up in this life expression.
您是否注意到與自戀者的關係如何涉及您給予和給予很少回報？你給的越多，對方的滿足就越少？與自戀者的關係將盡可能多地發展，以便您說得足夠多，並為自己轉變為更健康、更平衡和支持性的體驗。
Have you noticed how a relationship with a narcissist involves you giving and giving with little in return? And how the more you give the less it seems to satisfy the other? The relationship with the narcissist will go as far as necessary in order for you to say enough and shift into a healthier, more balanced and supportive experience for yourself.
作為一個天生的奉獻和愛心的人，並擁有強大的服務合同，這些都是很棒的特質！尋求平衡的是將您自己納入您自己的護理和服務中。自戀者的經歷會盡可能地失去平衡，最終迫使你這樣做，這就是為什麼它在移情者中如此普遍的原因。
Being a giving and loving person by nature and having a strong service contract are wonderful traits to have! What is seeking to be brought into balance is including yourself in your own care and service. The narcissist experience serves you by moving as far out of balance as necessary to finally force you to do just that, and that is why it is so prevalent among empaths.
自戀者/移情者的關係對雙方都不利。它剝奪了你的權力，因為你否認自己並試圖扮演讓另一個快樂的角色。它剝奪了另一個人的權力，因為他們希望你填滿他們並使他們快樂。它注定要失敗，因為外在不能讓你完整，幸福、滿足和個人成長都必須來自內心。
The narcissist/empath relationship is disempowering for both involved. It disempowers you because you deny yourself and try to take on the role of making another happy. It disempowers the other because they expect you to fill them up and make them happy. It is doomed to fail because externals cannot make you whole and happiness, satisfaction, and personal growth all must come from within.
所以要回答這個問題，我們會在新能量中看到更少的自戀者嗎？過度付出者總是會吸引過度接受者，反之亦然。如果您正在轉變為將自己融入自己的關注和關懷中，那麼自戀者的經歷將毫無意義。讓我們向您保證，一旦您這樣做了，您將永遠不會接受自戀關係的失衡性質，因此它確實成為一個非問題。
So to answer the question, will we see less narcissists in the new energies? Over givers will always attract over takers and vice versa. If you are shifting into the inclusion of yourself in your own focus and care there would be no purpose for the experience of the narcissist. And let us assure you, once you do that you would never accept the out of balance nature of a narcissist relationship, so it truly becomes a non-issue.
這一切都恰巧讓你回到了自己，這樣你就可以重新調整到更健康的給予和接受的過程中。一旦你這樣做了，你最終將能夠與提升和支持所有相關人員的關係保持一致。〜大天使加百利通過雪莉·楊
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